The letters of our thoughts are the ideas present in our mind before they come to realization . . . Thoughts that are, yet not felt . . . The words of the subconscious . . . of the soul . . .

These are the LETTERS OF MY THOUGHTS.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Return to the Garden of Hashem



On Thursday I went back to the Garden - taking my wife for the first time.
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Notice the snow on distant Pike's Peak!









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Fake Chassidic Jews Play Ball



This has been floating around the web for some time now - I my self saw it on DovBear's blog some time back.
The trailer can be found IMDB, but for whatever reason can't be embedded here. So check it out and answer here:
Is it brilliant? Or stupid? Poorly done . . . or so cheesy and bad it becomes good again?


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Friday, September 25, 2009

Picture of the Week 86 and Chossid's Avinu Malkeinu


Garden of Hashem in Colorado Springs

I had an epiphany while davening Rosh Hashana.
It seems that every group of Jews chooses to use the ancient prayer of Rabbi Akiva as point of song in prayer.
Interestingly the verse sung seems to reflect the ethos of each group.
The Veltishe tune focuses on the nadir of man - our baseness and lack of good deeds:
 אָבִינוּ מַלְכֵּנוּ חָנֵּנוּ וַעֲנֵנוּ כִּי אֵין בָּנוּ מַעֲשִׂים עֲשֵׂה עִמָּנוּ צְדָקָה וָחֶסֶד וְהושִׁיעֵנוּ.

The Chassidisher Olam focuses on the answering of our prayers, the needs of the many and the desire for physical blessings (I site the Belzer Avinu Malkeinu)
אָבִינוּ מַלְכֵּנוּ פְּתַח שַׁעֲרֵי שָׁמַיִם לִתְפִלָּתֵנוּ


In Chabad we sing the Alter Rebbe's tune . . . we hone in the inner meaning of Rosh Hashana - accepting the kingship of Hashem upon ourselves.
אָבִינוּ מַלְכֵּנוּ אֵין לָנוּ מֶלֶךְ אֶלָּא אָתָּה

Tatteh in himmel - du bist dach unzere eintziger kenig - mir hubbin keiner nisht a chutz fun dir!

I'd like to ask anyone I may have offended to please forgive me. Of special note, there was a rather intense exchange of words on this blog with Chaim Rubin from the Life of Rubin blog. I'd like to publicly state that I have nothing personally against him, and if chalilah I've been cruel and vicious to him, I'd like to ask his mechilah.
  

May we all be blessed with a good sweet year.


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Thursday, September 24, 2009

Further Debate on Ethics in the JBlogosphere


A while back I criticized Chaim Rubin. If you have not yet read it, I urge you to in order to properly engage in the debate. He recently responded to my critique:
Chaim said...

First of all, I never gave your permission to post private email exchanges.
Second, As I explained in my PRIVATE email to you, I would NOT say go get a CD or that I enjoyed a CD if I didn't.
You took a random comment and made a whole maisah out of it.
I told you if I dont like a CD I won't write about it.
Notice how few albums get reviewed on my site these days?
I dont have any obligation to post if a CD isn't to my liking.
Im just a guy with a blog who likes to write about something that I enjoy, music.
To make me out to be some sort of Huffington Post writer or contributor to a NY Times blog and this need to "call me out" or hold my feet to the fire or admonish me for not wanting to say negative things is very upsetting to me.
If I don't want to write when a song or a CD is bad, I DON'T HAVE TO.
As I wrote in our PRIVATE email exchange (if I had wanted it to be public I'd have allowed the comment though and engaged you in public) I do believe there is a Mentschlich element here that the goyishe world of journalism does not care about or take into account.
These ARE people who do work very hard to make an album and spend a lot of money. I will not be responsible for people not buying a CD or hurting someones Parnasah.
If the CD sucks, people will know, people aren't stupid. My blog and my reviews are meant for entertainment only, for fun, for some guy who loves music to publicly express when he enjoys a good song, or a good CD.

Yes, if you go back far enough you will see I started out differently, but as I did engage in lengthy and detailed conversations with many artists my conscious kicked in and I had many reasons to change what I choose to write about a CD.

I still hold true to my original comment. If you spent gobs of money and a project and spent months, sometimes years working on something only to have it publicly ripped apart on a site that gets over 1,000 eye balls every day, I think you'd be singing a different tune. Especially if said blog could cost you to lose tens of thousands of dollars and months (or years) worth of work.

... and you know what? I know there are holes in my logic, and news flash, I don't care.

I'm glad this is what you choose to make a big deal out of during the Aseres Yemei Teshuvah.

This is exactly why I don't post as much anymore, inane, pointless, self riotous, holier than thou comments and attack posts.

Gmar Tov, thanks for the public lashing. What a waste of everyones time. Don't take yourself so serious, it's just a blog, mine and yours and at the end of the day if you don't use your brain to make your own decisions then you're just sheep.


I'll respond to each comment in order:
I never posted the e-mails in their entirety. You never informed me that the conversation was to be kept private - in fact, it was your statement "But behold the glory of the world wide web, you can .... so, if you feel they are important comments to see the light of day . . ." that if anything implied explicit permission to bring the matter to the public forum. My quotes were to the point, and well with in the frame of Fair Use.

I'm glad that you have the integrity not to take garbage and pass it off to other people - I never suspected you of such. To not review what you consider inferior product is a legitimate means of keeping things 'fair'. You have no obligation to write about what you dislike - just as you have no obligation to write what you like - limiting it, as it will, you status as a true music review blog . . . then again you claim that you are not. So nu. What bothers me is the fudging of what you do review.

I don't make you out to be a NY Time writer, nor a huffington post . . . but if VIN and Yeshivah World can be called out, as you yourself have then neither your blog - nor mine- are different.

You seem to be confusing constructive criticism from childish ad hominem attacks. Let us deal with the later first:
Childish attacks are wrong. They serve no purpose other then to destroy. They show a lack of maturity on the part of the one who writes them, and have no place in adult conversation. When speaking of criticism, it is to such matters that you mistakenly bring as an example. On this I am in agreement with you: There is no place for immature and irresponsible attacks on the works of others - their are soseir shlo al menas l'vnos!

True criticism is not meant to "rip apart" the works of others. It is constructive and serves to better the future work. If done properly then it should in no way affect the parnasa of others. If the labels continue to release shoddy work, then it is to their own detriment!
Criticism is not a 'Goyishe' thing - make a true and honest cheshbon of what's right and wrong is just! You had no problem commenting on and profiling the Kolko case and other such high profile dirt in the frum world, yet you never batted an eyelash at lives you may be affecting therein! And you know what? I agree with you. Protecting 'inzere' will ultimately be a true danger to the viability of the Jewish Community biz bias goel tzedek, and while the Jewish record labels are not ch"v v'ch"v at all comparable to the above - the need to brake the Kosher Nostra remains. We need to strike the balance of respect and Mentschlich'kite with honesty and integrity.

You write that your blog is for entertainment only - yet to me it seems very clear that you are using it as backdoor to escape any responsibility from your own words! I never doubted that you write what you do out of joy - though you have set up a way to make some profit out of it all in order to defray your costs. I too write for the joy of it, but I don't use it as an excuse to avoid taking responsibility for my own lapses of intellectual honesty! You admit to holding power over the public, yet when confronted with a problem, you pretend that you're a nobody. Please.

If you admit that your logic is flawed and don't care . . . then I feel very sorry for you. Are you telling me that your writing is worthless and made of straw? I should hope not.

I didn't write this during Aseres Yemei Teshuvah - I in fact wrote it well before Rosh Hashanah. What is more, I would not be ashamed to write what I did now. I have no qualms against you as person and continue to have the utmost ahavas yisroel for you. If you take an honest and fair criticism of the topic (not the person) then the problem is in your own understanding of the matter. To quote a story mentioned in a recent post on the Tzig:
The Rov went for this daily walk on EYK and on this walk began to "bash" (for lack of a better term) a certain Jewish politician/askan. His attendant was surprised to hear these words from the [R]uv on such an auspicious day, and asked him if it wouldn't be better if they postpone this conversation until G-d has sealed the book of life. The Rov was quite surprised to hear this young man's question and had a very simple answer: I'm saying this because I believe that this man needs to be attacked verbally, and I believe so because I believe this is what Torah demands of me, so why should I not do what the Torah tells me to do davka on this day?!
My post was not inane nor pointless - I'd hope you'd afford my words that much credit. You're more then welcoming to disagree, but please let's level the proper criticism. What is more, please refrain from attacking my person as Self-"riotous" [sic], and holier then thou. Perhaps if you'd practice the enlightened ability to separate constructive criticism of ideas from that of your the person -and refrain from doing it to others (such as me), then you'd not have such trouble doing so when it comes to Music.
If you consider my words to be a waste of time, then they are. If you take them to practical application, then they were not wasted. Perhaps you'll no longer resort to excuses of knowingly not making any sense, and thus be m'kayim your own blessing "u
sing your [own] brain to make your own decisions" and thus not be "just sheep".

Chasima U'gmar Chasima Tova! A Zisse yahr.

Blog on my friend.


P.S. I am sorry if it seemed that your reviews are biased by free CDs. While I did seem to imply as much in my original post, my problem is equally as much with the general cushiness with the industries and the benefits there in.

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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Weekly Riddle 13


This weeks riddle is worth 10 points:

Harbinger of return, and hastening of the end.
Eight levels from strengthening the hand, to head that must bend.
I take from your strength, but repay in your days.
I save from the abyss and cure the malaise.


Bonus questions: For 4 points which Idan Raichel song is connected with the Eseres Yemei Teshuvah? 2 points will be given to the fifth, seventh, and fifteenth commenter. Finally I'll give 10 points to anyone who can tell which fantasy language is based on Hebrew and whose purported speakers are based on a European understanding of the Jews (hint:


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As well, I'd like to institute the addition of a weekly inyan in chasidus. This week I recommend Shir Ha'ma'alos in Lekutei Torah on Eseres Yemei Teshuvah. When you learn it, come back here and discuss.


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Monday, September 21, 2009

On Tashlich, Blogging, Twitter and Lubavitch


Note 9-22-09: I've added to this post
below

Over Yom Tov here in Colorado Springs the topic of bread by tashlich came up.
The 'rabbis' at Wikipedia even seem to think that it's an integral portion of the service.
It seems very much to be a reform custom . . . I haven't seen a source for it - if anything feeding the fish on Yom Tov should be problematic!


I've done some long needed upkeep on the blog . . . Including streamlining the sidebar (I've ditched some dated clutter - such as my "Follow me on Technorati [Does anyone even still use them?] button" from my blog), and implemented the Disqus system in the comments.
As well, I've added a list of books from Amazon Associates on the sidebar. Though I'd love to make some money off this blog - so please buy the books there - the main reason I've included them is to serve as a point of discussion on the blog. All the books have either been reviewed here (under the title What I Read Sometimes) or will be, G-d willing, in the future.

As a finale note: For those of you who are on Twitter and don't yet follow @Lubavitch - please do and get us up to 770 followers in honor of 5770.
As well become a fan of Lubavitch.com on Facebook!



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Thursday, September 17, 2009

Another Rosh Hashana Blog Post

Tomorrow night, Friday 18, September, the festival of Rosh Hashana begins.
When gather in synagogue the following morning, something will be conspicuously absent from the service - the blowing of the shofar.
The absences of such an integral mitzvah is based on a Talmudic dictum that forbids the use of the Shofar when Rosh Hashana coincides with the Sabbath. The decree was thus made to prevent someone from carrying the Shofar in public - a violation of Shabbat. True the Torah gives the Rabbinic body the authority to prevent possible transgressions and build 'fences' around Biblical law, however abrogating the blowing of the Shofar, a mitzvah that represents and accomplishes such lofty things, seems rather drastic.

The Chassidic masters explain that the day of Shabbat itself is able to bring down all of the divine revelations that the Shofar does during the week.

Let us take a better look at the Shofar. Like the trumpets blown by the coronation of a king, we blow the shofar to crown G-d, the supernal king of all kings, as our ruler once more on the anniversary of creation. Through the blowing of the shofar, the primordial scream of our soul to return to G-d and accept his presence anew in our lives, we make manifest once more His desire to rule over the world. Thus through our actions, we reveal G-ds inner pleasure and delight in His creations, reforging the bonds between us and Him. Shabbat is also a day of divine pleasure in the Creation, a day when G-d's infinite essence is manifest so strongly, that mundane work seems almost obscene, and thus forbidden.
 Since both moments, the blowing of the Shofar and the day of Shabbat, are points of pleasure above, the mitzvah of Shofar, then becomes almost a redundancy and is thus pushed off  due to the Rabbinic decree.

Interestingly enough, however, on Sunday - the second day of Rosh Hashana - we do blow the shofar. Why, one might ask, if Shabbat accomplishes the same inner purpose, do we need to blow the next day? The answer stresses the great power and responsibility that we have. True Shabbat does what the Shofar does and accomplishes the same sublime and lofty goals . . . but who makes Shabbat a holiday, who makes the divine pleasure manifest? Not you nor me, but rather G-d Himself. Thus a very important ingredient is missing from the pleasure of Shabbat - human action. 
On the second day of of Rosh Hashana, however, we blow the shofar in order that we - as a community, and as individuals - will once again reforge our covenent with the Creator. In other words - the whole world can be on the most sublime levels of revelation, but our actions as individuals are still needed.

May we all be blessed with a sweet new year of abundant blessings and revealed good!
-Mordechai Lightstone



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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Married Salad

After years of eating basement salad and other such bochur foods, the time has finally come to graduate to food fit for a married man.
Thus, with out further ado, I give you . . . Married Salad.
  
* Romaine Lettuce   
* Cubed avocado    
* Diced red onions  
* Crushed cashews
* Dried cranberries
* Fresh Blueberries

Dressing:
* Mayonnaise
* Garlic powder
* Ketchup
* Brown sugar
* Balsamic vinegar
* Lemon Juice
* Salt
















As per our custom here at Letters of Thought, I give you relevant facts specially culled from Wikipedia to ponder while eating.
  • The original traditional product [Balsalmic Vinegar], made from a reduction of cooked grape juice and not a vinegar in the usual sense, has been made in Modena and Reggio Emilia since the Middle Ages
  • Although today's ketchup is invariably tomato based, it did not appear until about a century after other types. By 1801, a recipe for tomato ketchup was created by Sandy Addison and was later printed in an American cookbook, the Sugar House Book. James Mease published another recipe in 1812. In 1824, a ketchup recipe using tomatoes appeared in The Virginia Housewife . . . The Webster's Dictionary of 1913 defined "catchup" as a "table sauce made from mushrooms, tomatoes, walnuts, etc. [Written also ketchup]." 
  • In the late 1800s, the newly consolidated refined white sugar industry, which did not have full control over brown sugar production, mounted a smear campaign against brown sugar, reproducing microscopic photographs of harmless but repulsive-looking microbes living in brown sugar. The effort was so successful that by 1900, a best-selling cookbook warned that brown sugar was of inferior quality and was susceptible to infestation by "a minute insect.
  •  The name "avocado" also refers to the fruit (technically a large berry) of the tree that contains a pit (hard seed casing) which may be egg-shaped or spherical.
  • In Goa, India, the [Cashew] is mashed and mixed with water and sugar and used to make Feni (a popular liquor) by fermentation.
  • At a 2007 symposium on berry health benefits were reports showing consumption of blueberries (and similar berry fruits including cranberries) may alleviate the cognitive decline occurring in Alzheimer's disease and other conditions of aging


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Sunday, September 13, 2009

Democrats and Republicans: Both of You Shut Up!

People complain about the Tea Parties using Nazi imagery when protesting the president and his health policies.
But those who complain now, themselves used (and continue to use) such imagery when protesting the previous president. The truth is . . .
Both of you shut up!

The Republicans and Democrats alike did nothing during the Holocaust. They let it go by before, and would let it happen again . . .
Garbage like this is offensive and minimizes the power and truth of what happened . . .



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Thursday, September 10, 2009

A Call for Journalistic Ethics in the JBlogosphere

One of the perks unknown to me when I began my blogging career was the propensity of various interest groups to throw free things at you in order to gain a grassroots buzz for their products.

I've received my fair share of goodies in the past. So have others.
But while blogging gives the "Citizen Journalist" many benefits, it also requires a basic commitment to journalistic standards of truth and integrity.
If not, then we loose our power to provide a fresh, honest and personal voice to the world . . . and instead become nothing more then cheap cogs in marketing. Ultimately we not only fail to live up to what we wish to stand for, but instead work against it.

Case in point: A certain blog recently reviewed Mordechai ben David's new album Kulam Ahuvim.

Now before I continue, I'd like to make a few points clear. I do not know Chaim Rubin personally (for that matter, due to his anonymity, I don't believe many people do), I can only say that in my dealings with him online, he's always been friendly. His blog has been a long standing feed on my Google Reader (for nearly four years now) . . . So let it be clear that I have no ill-will towards him or his blog.

That being said, we have an obligation to avoid hypocrisy, sycophancy and other signs of falseness.

In his review he writes:
One last thing, I hate to write anything negative because at this point I know the subject or someone involved in the project will read it at some point. Let me just address one thing, yes, MBD’s voice isn’t the same, so it’s hard to compare this CD to say … Moshiach or Mamminim. But that doesn’t matter, even like this it still incredible. I’d trade a weaker MBD voice over 80 percent of whats on the market currently any day
Something struck me the wrong way with his wording and intent. If MBD's voice is indeed no longer what it used to be (something completely acceptable - the man is allowed to age!), then say it! While the Torah is careful not to embarrass a non-kosher animal, it also clearly states what is right and wrong when it comes down to action. Say it, as pleasantly and respectfully as possible, and move on. If reviews, even if entirely true, don't say what is problematic, then they loose all authority!

Surprised by the sentiment expressed in the review, I decided to comment on Rubin's standards:
You write that you hate to write anything negative . . . Frankly I'm some[what] shocked by your statement! While it's important to respect the work and efforts of others, by not calling a spade a spade, or dodging the truth, you loose all journalistic integrity . . .
My comment criticizing the ethics of the reviewer (not the CD - as at the time I had not yet heard it!) never went up.
Instead I received an email from the reviewer letting me know that "every word" written was "the truth." - As to the lack of a complete and full review, I was told that the reader could infer what was wrong with the album from what was not written.

This path was described as being far better then what "some people" would rather have written - i.e. "this song sucks, it makes no sense, I think he sounds terrible, etc ..."

I, for one, couldn't agree more. Saying that a song "sucks" isn't a review at all . . . it's unqualified and a baseless attack.

What got me, however, was Rubin's reasoning for not wanting to write negative statements at all:
"I can't, because these people email me and they are human beings who get upset just like if someone walked into your business and told you to your face your horrible, you screwed up that job, your work was terrible ... etc..."

I for one was shocked by the travesty being presented as an honest review.
I understand the fine line one most walk when reviewing the work of others, and I agree that saying somethings "sucks" or sounds horrible is both immature and unprofessional. However to say that a song was lack luster, boring, or the like is not unfair.
It is no secret that the record labels know more then well that they use filler songs to round out an album. If they wish to push off fluff, then they must be able to handle the criticism that comes with it.

That they get upset is no secret, some time back Rubin was called out for his "harsh review of something" and as a result was confronted with and "had a long talk with someone who was very involved in the album".

Frankly the Jewish Record labels need to grow up. If something is poor quality, uninteresting or such . . . they need to face the facts and use it as a chance to change. To act otherwise shows the grossly unprofessional nature of these companies.
As a writer and part time journalist I've had my works ripped apart, but while painful, it's the price one pays for a quality product in the end.

If I plan on dropping down 15- 20 bucks for a (or more) on a CD, it had better be good! The reviews on sites such as Life of Rubin were often those that I used as a guide towards making a purchase.
If in the review there is a failure to point out serious flaws in a track or album, then hard earned money (Yiddishe gelt -with that the term implies) has been wasted. If one were to buy a mediocre product based on a one sided Consumer Reports review, he'd cry foul. This is no different!

What is more, if the reason for not writing a complete review is due to the presence of free review units supplied by the labels, then what we see on the site is nothing more then an advertisement. Perhaps one written by a fan and entirely his own words and opinion, but one biased by the gift none the less.
At the very least, basic standards demand that he make clear in the reviews that the review unit was supplied by the companies . . . if not, then the author sold out and become an ad blog over a music review blog, having disqualified himself with a clear and present conflict of interests.


My original comment calling out the author for writing lack of journalistic integrity was never posted to the site. The reason, as mentioned in a follow up e-mail was that it was too negative. Negative of who? Not of Mordechai ben David, nor of the music labels, but rather about the blogger himself!
In short, for asking for a clear and basic commitment to journalistic integrity. My comment was censored. True I was given the decency of being told why it was censored, but censored it was nonetheless.
What makes the act of hypocrisy even more onerous is Rubin's penchant for calling out other frum publications on their own acts of censorship!

When Mishpacha Magazine (poorly) cropped out Laura Bush from picture of the White House kitchen being kashered for a Chanukah party, Rubin was in near hysterics calling, admittedly a stupid and near pointless move, "offensive, not just to women, but to world leaders," a "Chillul Hashem" a source of "animosity toward Frum people by men and women in positions of power(?!)"
I doubt that Laura has Mishpacha on her reading table, and question Chaim Rubin's statement that "It’s bad enough you don’t show women, for whatever sad reasoning" (Has he ever spoken to rabbonim about the Rebbe's sentiment about portraying the female likeness in Chabad publications? He might be surprised), the point remains that when it comes to his own honor and credentials, he doesn't flinch in hiding the truth.
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Let's hope that the new year has more abiding results.



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Wednesday, September 09, 2009

Weekly Riddle 12

Note: I've updated the riddle to better reflect the answer. Sorry for any confusion.

This week's riddle is going for 12 points:

Born on the water, lives by the land. Flies through the air, sleeps in the sand. No legs in the morn', four by the 'noon. To the People of the Straights, I spelled doom.

The guy on our left was the answer to last weeks bonus. 4 points will go the 5th, 10th and 12th person to comment, as well as 3 points to the third person to correctly answer the riddle.

Bonus Question: Where was the first written record of using hops in beer - for 5 points, and 2 points for the first person to tell us what hops are.




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Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Google Translate - Come Again?

I put the famous Hebrew poem
אדם דואג על איבוד דמיו
ואינו אינו דואג על איבוד ימיו
דמיו אינם עוזרים
וימיו אינם חוזרים
into google translate.
Simply rendered as: Man worries about loosing money, but doesn't worry about loosing his days. Money doesn't help, and his days will not return.

What did I get back? A classic jem

Person concerned about the loss of similarity and does not worry about losing his life, animations do not help, his days are returning

Why of course! I knew that.

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Monday, September 07, 2009

Chanukas Habayis


G-d willing there will a farbrengen tonight at my place:
Be There!

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Thursday, September 03, 2009

Picture of the Week: 85

"Schapiro's Wine: The Lower East Side"

If you haven't yet VOTED for the Judaism 2.0 panel at SXSW (South by South West) please do so, as voting ends today. If you have voted, please comment!

Wishing everyone a good Shabbos!

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Wednesday, September 02, 2009

Weekly Riddle 11



This weeks riddle is on time for once:

Feared by children, abode of criminals, created for sages.
Warned shall you be when I come to pay the poor man his wages.
I surround all, no knife can cut me, yet I touch none.
Pay heed for: come steel and stone, and I am undone!




The riddle is worth 14 points. I'll give 1 point to the thirteenth one to comment. There are 2 points up to the first one to tell me what the picture on left is and a whopping 15 for anyone who can tell me the name of the Gnome that beats the Pink Elephant (I'll give you all a clue, he lives near the toast) !

The answers will be posted on Friday, G-d willing, along with the picture of the week!
G'luck Y'all!
  
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Tuesday, September 01, 2009

Interesting Video on Why We (Don't) Need Socialized Healthcare


Discuss.

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